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Hey, so, PSA: I use a skin that makes it appear that kudos do not exist AND I turn off notifications. This is to say, if you kudos, I will have no idea. Please, feel free to go ahead and do so, especially if it's something that makes you feel good or calm or in any way positive. Doing things this way, everyone wins.